Recently, I journaled to a prompt about ‘firsts’.  Writing is sometimes more difficult and much of this was written on a day where writing was especially hard. Writing to this prompt made me realize just how far I’ve come in my life. I’ve done a lot of things and I’ve been fortunate. What follows is another way of looking at things. I’ve had a lot of firsts in my life: • I’m the first female in my family to graduate from college, though not the last. • I’m the first in my family and generation to get a divorce, though not the last. • I was 39 when I had…