• Sundry Posts

    Feng Shui Resistance

    I must admit I procrastinate, freely and, mostly, unapologetically. But I realized tonight that my procrastination is a mask for something else: Resistance. I’ve written about resistance previously; you can read that post here. Tonight is different. With so many different things competing for my attention, it is easy to get caught up in the madness. The madness caught up with me in the way of my office being nearly unusable due to chaos and general messiness. Now, I am not a complete neat freak nor do I spend a lot of time worrying about how things look. But every once in a while, it all reaches this measure of fullness,…

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    Resistance is Your Compass

     Resistance   This post has been a struggle to write. You might say I’ve been resistant to the very thought of resistance. Tonight at dinner, my grandson was resistant to eating dinner. Even though he’d asked for and received what he wanted, he’d decided in the meantime that he wanted something else. The ensuing negotiation was interesting: “Caleb, you asked for a grilled cheese.” “But, I want a sub sandwich.” “If you eat this, we can have that tomorrow.” “Why can’t I have what I want?” This one had large tears in the eyes. “Because this is what we are having for dinner.” “But I don’t want that.” “You only…